I spend thousands of dollars every year for my kids to play competitive sports. I was thinking about the financial burden this places on our family and the sacrifices we make in time and foregoing other financial and time bound opportunities and needs. I started to weigh the pros and cons and the cons were winning.
Then, my pros list made a comeback.
1. I get to spend hours watching them compete at high levels to be the best at what they want to do.
2. I get to teach them how to eat healthy and take care of the body physically and nutritionally to perform mentally and physically at high levels.
3. I get to see them build deep friendships with teammates and battle for their greater good.
4. I watch them battle foes with all the fierce tenacity they can muster and take a knee if an injury occurs and shake hands in victory and defeat.
5. I hear coaches rip into them, challenge them to improve and teach them top level instruction while they respond with deeper dedication and commitment to master their craft.
6. I capture hours with them to and from their activity...talking.
7. I get them out of the house doing and not sitting watching a screen.
8. I get to share the experience of traveling with them to different places.
9. I have the opportunity to include them with adults and teach them how to interact respectfully while having fun.
10. I get my ego stroked when people complement them on their performance both in and out of the competition.
11. I get to fantasize about "what if"....
12. I see them learn to win with grace and lose with pride.
13. I witness moments when they are so tired they want to quit, but don't.
14. I pay to watch them learn to be disciplined.
15. I witness them practice for hours and hours and hours for 1 moment. And, if that moment doesn't end the way it was drawn up-I watch them go back and practice more as they lern success doesn't happen over night or by accident.
I could have kept my list going, but the light came on. ITs not for everyone thats for sure. But I have found a path that my kids love and can't get enough of that provides bountiful opportunities to teach them life lessons through experiences. the funny thing is, I recently had this conversation with 2 of my boys about the resources it takes to for them to be able to do what they do. Their response wasn't about the sacrifices, hardships, loses, wins, etc...it was about the life long friendships and memories they have formed and the irony of knowing that their future holds more of both in store them.
decision made.
The life of Anderson's. Our journey captured and shared. Steve, Jeana, Wil, Sarah, Wade, James
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- Anderson Family Life
- Dear friends, We began this blog in the summer of 2012 when our family was called to step "out" of our "normal" life as we lived it in Carrollton Texas and serve for 3 months at Housesofhope.org orphanage in Zacapa, Guatemala. A simple blog for our friends and family to stay in touch during our short journey. Since that season we have decided we will use this as a means to continue to log our journey, share our stories and create a platform to champion what inspires us. We hope you enjoy and pray that you are encouraged into action and deeper reflection on family and faith.
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